The good things about me: very laid back, positive with a healthy dose of realist, an even mixture of intro/extrovert, I know etiquette and I’m not afraid to use it, polite to a fault, loving, considerate, confident, passionate, hard working, faithful, straightforward, and I’m a cat and person. I could go on and on ad nauseam about my sexual prowess or penis size, but I’ll keep it simple; I’m great (unless I am all up in my head) and I’m above average. The not-so good things about me: anal retentive (and not in the sexual way), controlling (but more with situations and not with people), I procrastinate with things I really don’t want to do and sometimes with things that really need to get done, heavy baggage that I carry without a hitch, I can be jealous and affectionate to levels that are off-putting, and I can be overly analytical of the smallest details. These are just the things I can see, good and bad, on top of the other things that I am, like we all are with ourselves, blind to. Whether you’re interested in a quick fling or finding “the one”, you know what you’re getting into. I hate to use vehicle analogies, but I’m a sports car. I’m not the biggest or strongest, but I am the most fun to ride and if you know how to handle me, you’re in for the time of your life. That said, let me give you fair warning. I will not change who I am for anyone. Ever. Under no circumstances. I love who I am. I am not looking for someone to complete me, because I am already complete. You have to come to me the same way. I am looking for a partner-in-crime, not a patient-in-need. If you’re looking for that “missing piece”, you need to look for it inside yourself, first. I am finally getting over some major hurdles of getting a new job in a new city and a new place. While I am currently not looking for a serious relationship, I am definitely not opposed to one developing. Let the sparks fly where they may. And if they don’t, I can assure you, it is okay to say so. It is much more preferable to be confronted with honesty than silence So, if ghosting is your choice of rejecting someone, allow me to be frank, go f@&k yourself. If you’re interested in my reading, listening, or other habits and hobbies, just ask. Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person Short(5’ 6” or less), sweet, kind, spitfire, independent. I have no problem with curvy women or ones with a little extra, but no BBWs. Sorry. Though I have much love for y’all, it has never worked out in the past.

Also, no politics or religion until after the third date, or whatever. If you are extreme left or right, don’t bother.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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